对婚姻的看法英文.pdf

Once, I heard of that marriage is a pair of shoes, we should find it which is suitable of ourselves. Indeed, marriage is important to all peoples life. All of us need to make a full psychological and material preparations. Marriage needs love to hold. What is love. Love is a purely personal relationship without power and duty. It develops only due to our own feelings. Love is the communication of emotions, but marriage is totally different. Marriage comes from love, but marriage is not equal to love. Marriage is the beginning of a new life. And a lot of things can be changed. Before marriage, we can do what we want to do. We can not be as free asa single man. But after marriage,we have an open relationship with a lot of people. After it, we need to responsible for each other and learn to share. Both of us need to share everything we owned. Actually, marriage is more complex than love. We can say love is the slave of the feeling. Marriage is the art of two people to get along. Marriage is not only a long road, but also bumpy. If the two guys are not good at manage it and do not learn to tolerant and accommodate each other, the road will go very hard. Love, in such mutual consumption, will gradually lost its luster. Marriage which is happy needs the suitable character. Happy marriage needs the both to tolerate and understand each other. If there is no patience and tolerance in marriage, and every one only consider their own feelings, each of them will not be happy. When time goes on, they would want to escape. Marriage can be said to be a learning, and all of us are students. We need to study it carefully and learn how to manage it.